I have found some comfort in monitoring Diana Hemingway‘s escorting phone. For one, I got to tell off her worst client.
But I’m also grateful that I’m able to share the news with some of her better clients before her phone gets shut off. Some of these guys literally helped her to survive (financially) for almost three years – – the best three years of my life.
She was a very powerful sexual healer, who undoubtedly provided her clients with profound intimacy, emotional safety, and an outlet for desires that society shames and stigmatizes.
I know this news has to hurt them like hell, but I have to believe that knowing the truth is better than texting and calling without ever knowing what happened to her.
Sex work is so very much more than just helping someone else get off.